Zürich is Europe's most international banking hub — and quietly, one of its lonelier cities for new arrivals. The salaries are high, the trams are on time, and yet making Swiss friends in Zürich can take three to five years. You don't have to wait that long to talk to someone who actually listens.
The Zürich expat population has a very specific shape. I regularly listen to:
UBS, Julius Bär, Zurich Insurance, Credit Suisse-now-UBS, hedge funds in Altstetten and Oerlikon. Long hours, a culture of reserve, colleagues who aren't quite friends. I know the weight of that.
Zürich's Google HQ, Meta, Microsoft, countless ETH-spinouts. Brilliant colleagues, intense sprints, and — if you're honest — not much of a social life outside them.
The short contracts, the pressure to publish, the winter darkness, the homesickness that peaks around December. Let's talk.
You followed someone here for their job. They have a purpose-filled day; you're figuring out yours while the Kreis feels strange. I understand.
Kindergarten in Swiss German, school systems that work differently, no grandparents nearby. The mental load is heavier than it looks from outside.
I live in Zürich myself — Badenerstrasse 653 in Albisrieden, close to the lake and the tram 2. I know Swiss German life from the inside: the quiet Sundays, the apéro rules, the sometimes-baffling Wohnungssuche, the apartment-hunt stress, the 'sie duzen sich schon?' moments at work, the way the GA feels like a magic carpet but also a slightly lonely one when you're riding back from the Alps alone.
Zürich has everything except — for many expats — an easy social life. Language meet-ups help. Meetup.com helps. But they're group-level solutions, and some things you just want to say one-to-one, in your own language, to someone who isn't a colleague, a neighbour or a LinkedIn contact.
My sessions in Zürich happen on your schedule. Lunch break from Paradeplatz? Evening after the kids are down in Wollishofen or Wipkingen? Weekend morning before a hike up the Uetliberg? Message me on WhatsApp, we'll find 30 minutes.
Google Hürlimann-Areal, UBS Europaallee, the Kreis 4 and 5 evening scenes, the ETH Hönggerberg bubble, the international schools in Wädenswil and Adliswil — each has its own loneliness flavour, and I've listened to all of them.
You can attend every expat apéro in Oerlikon and still feel unknown. Networking and listening are different things; this is the second one.
The short days, the fog over the lake, the Fondue season that feels cosy only if you have people to share it with. Evening and weekend sessions are available specifically for this.
Sessions happen via WhatsApp, phone or video — your location in Zurich doesn't matter. Lunch break, evening, weekend, on a tram: if you have 30 minutes and cell signal, we can talk.
Send me a note at +41 78 262 75 22 — e.g. "Hi Jabu, I'm an expat in Zurich and I'd like to talk."
Evenings and weekends work well. CHF 20 flat. No subscriptions.
Thirty minutes of full attention in English, then a Twint request for CHF 20. That's the whole thing.
Die Dargebotene Hand / La Main Tendue / Telefono Amico — 143 — free, 24/7, multilingual (English usually available)
Pro Juventute — 147 (under 25)
Medical emergency — 144
If you're in acute distress, please call 143 now — they're staffed specifically for this. I'm for everyday conversations, not emergencies.
Same service, same CHF 20, same WhatsApp and Twint — across Switzerland.